• 1300 334 566
  • info@bcglaw.com.au
  • 8.30am - 5pm Monday- Friday
Linkedin Facebook Youtube
  • About Us
    • Meet the Team
  • Wills + Estates
    • Wills + Estate Disputes
  • Conveyancing
    • Real Estate Agents
  • Commercial
    • Business Advice
    • Business Partnership Disputes
  • Family Law
    • Family Law Involving Business
  • Criminal + Litigation
    • Criminal + Traffic Law
    • Litigation
  • Resources
    • Advice + Articles
    • Costs of a Law Firm
    • Choosing A Law Firm
    • 10 Awkward Questions
  • Contact Us
Menu
  • About Us
    • Meet the Team
  • Wills + Estates
    • Wills + Estate Disputes
  • Conveyancing
    • Real Estate Agents
  • Commercial
    • Business Advice
    • Business Partnership Disputes
  • Family Law
    • Family Law Involving Business
  • Criminal + Litigation
    • Criminal + Traffic Law
    • Litigation
  • Resources
    • Advice + Articles
    • Costs of a Law Firm
    • Choosing A Law Firm
    • 10 Awkward Questions
  • Contact Us
Search
Close
Advice & Articles

Parental Communication Paramount – Family Law Advice

FREECALL NOW >

 

Most separating parents want an ongoing and meaningful relationship with their children. They will, after all, be parents for life.

 

But what is the key to parenting effectively, while living in separate houses?

 

Parents will often each have different ideas regarding parenting, but that does not mean that one or the other parent is wrong, they are just different. And the differences are to be celebrated – those differences provide the children with two separate, and not necessarily opposing, view points.In order for a shared parenting agreement to work, these two people have to find a way to work with their differences. Firstly, children are very intelligent, they know when a weakness or difference of opinion appears in the approach being taken by their parents. Anyone with children will know they will play these two parents against each other to gain an outcome they see as beneficial to themselves. This play off isn’t overtly selfish.

 

Very young children will, early in the break-up, state to both parents that they don’t want to go to the other. This has nothing to do with choosing one parent over the other. This break-up is very unsettling for the child, so the child may seek the exact same loving and caring response from both their parents to make themselves feel safe .It is important for parents to recognise this and be able to maintain a basic and civil level of communication, just to protect themselves from being exploited. It is helpful for the children for them to focus, not on the differences, but basics that perhaps they substantially agree upon. This way they can support one another in parenting decisions – provided same are basic to the child’s welfare and do not create any risk to the children. The Court considers the parent’s ability to talk to one another about their children to be of paramount importance when looking at a co-parenting regime. It is deemed by the law to be in the children’s best interests that parents share the responsibility for the children’s care, but this becomes impossible if the two parents cannot cooperate together on some level.

 

Being able to speak to one another civilly and make decisions about your children, even when you do not entirely agree with the other party, is of fundamental importance if it is your goal to be a share parent. Celebrate your different views, they introduce the children to diversity of thought! Agreeing on a set of basics you can live with, will lead to happier and more effective parenting.

 

To discuss your Family Law matter feel free to contact us today. Bennett Carroll Solicitors have offices located in Brisbane, Gold Coast and the Sunshine Coast.

Parental Communication Paramount - Family Law Advice

Related Articles

When You Need to See or Speak to a Family Lawyer

When You Need to See or Speak to a Family Lawyer – Advice Article

Social Media and Family Law – dos and don’ts

Social Media and Family Law – do’s and don’ts

“A Child’s Best Interests” – The Court’s Perspective

“A Child’s Best Interests” – The Court’s Perspective

Upcoming School Holidays & Your Children

Separation and Vaccination – Can my ex legally vaccinate my child without my consent?

Incoming Inheritance During Divorce – Who gets what and why?

Incoming Inheritance During Divorce – Who gets What and Why?

PrevPreviousSocial Media and Family Law – do’s and don’ts
NextBuying a Franchise- Youtube PlaylistNext

OUR Achievements

3 Best Family Lawyers Top Picks 2019

3 Best Estate Planning Lawyers Top Picks 2019

3 Best Conveyancer Top Picks 2019

3 Best Traffic Lawyers Brisbane Top Picks 2019

3 Best Criminal Lawyers Top Picks 2019

3 Best Traffic Lawyers in Sunshine Coast Top Picks 2019

OUR LOCATIONS

BRISBANE NORTH - STAFFORD
269 Stafford Road, Stafford Brisbane QLD
BRISBANE SOUTH - UPPER MT GRAVATT
33 Sanders Street, Upper Mount Gravatt Brisbane QLD
SUNSHINE COAST - KAWANA
Suite 13, 1 Capital Place, Kawana QLD 4575
GOLD COAST - MERMAID BEACH
5/ 2484 Gold Coast Highway, Mermaid Beach QLD
  • 1300 334 566
  • info@bcglaw.com.au
SUBSCRIBE:
Subscribe to receive our free email updates.
Copyright 2021 © Bennett Carroll. All rights reserved.